{"product_id":"but-i-love-him-protecting-your-teen-daughter-from-controlling-abusive-dating-relationships","title":"But I Love Him: Protecting Your Teen Daughter from Controlling, Abusive Dating Relationships","description":"One in three girls will be in a controlling, abusive dating relationship before she graduates from high school – from verbal or emotional abuse to sexual abuse or physical battering. Is your daughter in danger?\nDr. Jill Murray speaks on the topic of dating violence at high schools around the country, reaching more than 10,000 students, teachers, and counsellors each year. In every school she visits, she is approached by teenage girls in miserable relationships who, when confronted with the option of breaking up with the boy, exclaim, \"But I love him!\"\nMany young women – and their parents, aren't even aware of the indications of a potentially abusive relationship. What's most alarming is that these warning signs are also some of the behaviours that girls find most flattering:\nA boy pages and calls a girl often – but as a form of control, not affection.\nHe wants to spend all his time with her, but eventually won't allow her to spend time with her friends.\nHe says \"I love you\" very early in the relationship.\nThese behaviours can escalate into blaming, isolating, manipulating, threatening, humiliation, and sexual and physical abuse.\nIn But I Love Him, Dr. Murray identifies these controlling, abusive patterns of behaviour and helps you get your daughter out of the relationship without alienating her. You will learn what draws her to this type of relationship, why she has a hard time talking to you about it, the special barriers teens face when breaking off a relationship, and what's going on in the mind of a teen abuser. Dr. Murray will help you show your teen what a respectful relationship looks like, and teach her the importance of respecting herself. edition.\u003cbr\u003eASIN: 0060957298\u003cbr\u003eVSKU: BVV.0060957298.A\u003cbr\u003eCondition: Acceptable\u003cbr\u003eAuthor\/Artist:Murray, Jill\u003cbr\u003eBinding: Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eNote:\u003c\/b\u003e Any images shown are stock photographs and product may differ from what is shown.  \u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eCondition Notes\u003c\/b\u003e: The item is very worn but is perfectly usable. Signs of wear can include aesthetic issues such as scratches, dents, worn and creased covers, folded page corners and minor liquid stains. All pages and the cover are intact, but the dust cover may be missing. Pages may include moderate to heavy amount of notes and highlighting, but the text is not obscured or unreadable. Page edges may have foxing  age related spots and browning . May NOT include discs, access code or other supplemental materials.  \u003cbr\u003e","brand":"Blue Vase Books","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43338222370877,"sku":"BVV.0060957298.A","price":5.89,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0589\/4225\/9261\/files\/0060957298-0.jpg?v=1783911590","url":"https:\/\/www.bluevasebooks.com\/products\/but-i-love-him-protecting-your-teen-daughter-from-controlling-abusive-dating-relationships","provider":"Blue Vase Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}