{"product_id":"grace-in-the-gray-a-more-loving-way-to-disagree","title":"Grace in the Gray: A More Loving Way to Disagree","description":"By approaching disagreements in a more loving way and seeing the grace and good in those who hold differing viewpoints, you'll gain a deeper understanding of others, yourself, and God—from the bestselling author of Finding God's Life for My Will.\n\n“Written with just the right amount of humor, reflection, and heart, Grace in the Gray shows us how to focus on the people we may disagree with more than focusing on the issue at hand.”—Mac Powell, Grammy Award–winning singer and songwriter\n\nIn a culture where constant offense and polarization dominate so many interactions, here is good news about a more productive way to disagree: God desires for us to become better at loving others . . . not better at debating.\n\nGrace in the Gray helps us see the grace and good that’s often hidden by our own limited perspectives and assumptions. Through a collection of personal stories and biblical insights, Mike Donehey reveals a four-stage process to help you\n\n1. subjectify those you’ve objectified\n2. empathize with those you’ve vilified\n3. humanize those you’ve deified\n4. see why your posture is as essential as your position\n\nIn relationships, professional settings, and social situations, discover how to focus on the person standing beforeyou more than the argument set against you. Doing so gives you the rare ability to face any conflict with better questions, kindness, and the calming posture of curiosity.\n\nIt all begins by learning to listen and lead with the most transformative substance the universe has ever known . . . God’s love.\u003cbr\u003eASIN: 0593194187\u003cbr\u003eVSKU: BVV.0593194187.G\u003cbr\u003eCondition: Good\u003cbr\u003eAuthor\/Artist:Donehey, Mike\u003cbr\u003eBinding: Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eNote:\u003c\/b\u003e Any images shown are stock photographs and product may differ from what is shown.  \u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eCondition Notes\u003c\/b\u003e: Former library book with the usual stamps, stickers and labels. The item shows wear from consistent use, but it remains in good condition and works perfectly. All pages and cover are intact  including the dust cover, if applicable . Spine may show signs of wear. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting. May NOT include discs, access code or other supplemental materials.  \u003cbr\u003e","brand":"Blue Vase Books","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43558726565949,"sku":"BVV.0593194187.G","price":6.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0589\/4225\/9261\/files\/0593194187-0.jpg?v=1788384148","url":"https:\/\/www.bluevasebooks.com\/products\/grace-in-the-gray-a-more-loving-way-to-disagree","provider":"Blue Vase Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}