{"product_id":"laphams-rules-of-influence-a-careerists-guide-to-success-status-and-self-congratulation","title":"Lapham's Rules of Influence: A Careerist's Guide to Success, Status, and Self-Congratulation","description":"As the editor of Harper's Magazine, Lewis Lapham has enjoyed entrée to America's \"cultural elite,\" a class distinguished by its talent for currying favor, licking boots, and kissing ass. Now, in this scathingly funny and politically incorrect self-help book, Mr. Lapham offers his best advice to aspiring careerists seeking to ride in helicopters and see themselves on television.\n\nDrawing upon a lifetime of experience among the cogno-scenti, Mr. Lapham breaks rank and reveals the unspoken secrets of getting ahead: what to say, how to dress, when to lie, whom to befriend, where to be seen, and why it is absolutely essential to wear clean shoes. (\"The first impression is also the last impression. You don't wish to be remembered as the stain on the rug.\")\n\nAnyone interested in self-advancement will be transformed by Lapham's Rules of Influence, which offers proven nuggets of wisdom. For example, when trying to impress the boss, remember: \"Flattery cannot be too often or too recklessly applied. Think of it as suntan lotion or moisturizing cream.\"\n\nWritten with stinging wit and tongue planted firmly in cheek, Lapham's Rules of Influence is a brilliant critique of class and manners in America, packed with the kind of irreverent observation that only Lewis Lapham can provide.\n\nSeek out the acquaintance of people richer and more important than yourself, and never take an interest in people who cannot do you any favors.\n\nRumor tinged with malice is the most precious form of gossip. When you are invited to spend a weekend with important journalists or movie stars, it is considered polite to bring four items of unpublished slander in lieu of a house present or a bottle of wine.\n\nMake unsparing use of clichés. The empty word is the correct word. Contrary to the opinion of snobbish New York intellectuals, the placid murmur of cliché is always preferable to the expression of strong feeling, which is an embarrassment.\n\nA truly fashionable dinner party ends at the moment when all the guests have arrived and everybody has been seen or not seen. Once attendance has been taken, the rest of the evening is superfluous.\n\nA good meeting is one at which nothing happens. Sit erect, second all the motions, remember everybody's name.\u003cbr\u003eASIN: 0679426051\u003cbr\u003eVSKU: BVV.0679426051.A\u003cbr\u003eCondition: Acceptable\u003cbr\u003eAuthor\/Artist:Lapham, Lewis\u003cbr\u003eBinding: Hardcover\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eNote:\u003c\/b\u003e Any images shown are stock photographs and product may differ from what is shown.  \u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eCondition Notes\u003c\/b\u003e: The item is very worn but is perfectly usable. Signs of wear can include aesthetic issues such as scratches, dents, worn and creased covers, folded page corners and minor liquid stains. All pages and the cover are intact, but the dust cover may be missing. Pages may include moderate to heavy amount of notes and highlighting, but the text is not obscured or unreadable. Page edges may have foxing  age related spots and browning . May NOT include discs, access code or other supplemental materials.  \u003cbr\u003e","brand":"Blue Vase Books","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43499479728189,"sku":"BVV.0679426051.A","price":6.07,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.bluevasebooks.com\/products\/laphams-rules-of-influence-a-careerists-guide-to-success-status-and-self-congratulation","provider":"Blue Vase Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}