{"product_id":"secrets-of-a-southern-debutante-a-memoir-of-financial-privilege-a-mothers-cruelty-and-a-will-to-endure","title":"Secrets of a Southern Debutante: A memoir of financial privilege, a mother's cruelty, and a will to endure","description":"Secrets of a Southern Debutante by Carla Rosewood. A real life. A true story. A memoir that reads with the beauty and intensity of a Southern novel.\nIn Secrets of a Southern Debutante, Carla Rosewood, reveals the truth behind the elegant world of Willow Root, a privileged Arkansas community filled with country club rituals, polished manners, and flawless appearances. To outsiders her life looked enviable. Inside the home she faced a mother whose addiction shaped the rhythm of each day and a father who felt more at ease in his airplanes and on is farms than in the house where is family lived.\nThis memoir reaches far beyond the events of a debutante season. It begins with the moments that shaped Carla and the intense teenage years where she tried to create stability in a household that rarely offered it. Her mother placed her own desires, impulses, and social life ahead of her daughter's safety and emotional well-being. Her father escaped the turmoil by flying, tending to farmland, and remaining gone for long stretches, always finding somewhere else to be.\nTheir home was often filled with her mother's friends. Women and men gathered in the afternoons and stayed into the evenings, talking, smoking, drinking, and losing themselves in the comfort of each others' company. Carla was expected to keep everything moving. Carla mixed cocktails, refilled glasses, carried trays, and served as bartender for adults who relaxed while she worked quietly around them. She learned how to pour drinks long before she learned how to drive. She moved through crowded rooms , unseen and essentail, helping maintain gatherings that revolved entirely around the adults in her mother's orbit.\nThe debutante season becomes vivid chapters in a much larger story. While Carla attended glittering parites, posed for portraits, and stepped into the polished world of Southern tradition, she privately navigated the instability of a mother overtaken by addiction and a father who avoided home at every opportunity. The Bracelet Ritual, the fear of the electric cord, the cruelty of the silent treatment, and long afternoons and evenings of serving drinks to her mother's guests all reveal the emotional cost of a childhood hidden behind a polished exterior.\nEach chapter unfolds like scenes from a novel. Together they create the portrait of a young woman learning to stay steady in a world shaped by silence, secrecy, and contradiction. Through it all she discovered strength in places where she once felt invisible and found a voice after years of being unheard.\nThis memoir is filled with emotion, atmosphere, and truth. It is ideal for readers who enjoy The Glass Castle, Educated, and Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil.\nThis is a story about a young woman raised in a world of lace and privilege who survived a mother lost in addition and a father who lived everywhere but home and who finally found the courage to speak her truth.\u003cbr\u003eASIN: B0G2LPN4SY\u003cbr\u003eVSKU: BVV.B0G2LPN4SY.VG\u003cbr\u003eCondition: Very Good\u003cbr\u003eAuthor\/Artist:Rosewood, Carla\u003cbr\u003eBinding: Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eNote:\u003c\/b\u003e Any images shown are stock photographs and product may differ from what is shown.  \u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eCondition Notes\u003c\/b\u003e: Book has little sign of wear or use  \u003cbr\u003e","brand":"Blue Vase Books","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43335472513085,"sku":"BVV.B0G2LPN4SY.VG","price":16.39,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0589\/4225\/9261\/files\/B0G2LPN4SY-0.jpg?v=1783728644","url":"https:\/\/www.bluevasebooks.com\/products\/secrets-of-a-southern-debutante-a-memoir-of-financial-privilege-a-mothers-cruelty-and-a-will-to-endure","provider":"Blue Vase Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}