Hope for Survivors of Domestic Abuse: A Christ Centered Reality Therapy Approach

Hope for Survivors of Domestic Abuse: A Christ-Centered Reality Therapy Approach by Dr. Carrie Kitay is a comprehensive, truth-centered guide designed to bring clarity, safety, and healing to one of the most misunderstood areas of counseling and ministry. Written for survivors, counselors, pastors, and students, this book confronts domestic abuse with both biblical authority and psychological realism, refusing to minimize harm or excuse destructive behavior in the name of faith, forgiveness, or relationship preservation. At the heart of this book is Christ-Centered Reality Therapy (CCRT), a counseling framework that insists healing begins with truth. Abuse is not treated as mutual conflict or poor communication, but as a patterned misuse of power intended to dominate, control, and erase personal agency. Dr. Kitay carefully explains how coercive control operates emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, and relationally, helping readers identify abuse even when it is subtle, normalized, or hidden behind religious language. The book addresses the devastating impact of trauma on perception, attachment, and decision-making, explaining why survivors often feel trapped, confused, or unable to leave. Rather than blaming victims for these reactions, CCRT recognizes them as adaptive survival responses while still affirming the survivor’s dignity, agency, and capacity for restoration. Readers learn how clarity, responsibility, and safety can be gradually rebuilt without pressure, shame, or unrealistic expectations A significant focus of the book is spiritual abuse. Dr. Kitay exposes how Scripture has been misused to silence victims, excuse perpetrators, and preserve appearances within families and churches. Teachings on submission, forgiveness, suffering, and reconciliation are examined in their proper biblical context, restoring God’s character as a defender of the oppressed, a restrainer of evil, and a protector of the vulnerable. The book demonstrates that faithfulness never requires enduring harm or surrendering personal safety. In addition to helping survivors find clarity and hope, Hope for Survivors of Domestic Abuse equips counselors and ministry leaders with ethical, trauma-informed guidance. It challenges harmful practices such as joint counseling in abusive relationships, premature reconciliation, and therapeutic neutrality, replacing them with approaches that prioritize truth, accountability, and protection. Churches and faith-based organizations are also called to move beyond silence and good intentions toward informed, courageous responses that reflect God’s justice and compassion. Ultimately, this book offers more than information—it offers a path forward. By integrating Scripture, psychology, and Christ-Centered Reality Therapy, Dr. Kitay provides a framework that restores dignity, empowers survivors, and equips caregivers to respond wisely and responsibly. Hope is not found by denying reality, but by naming it, confronting it, and allowing God’s truth to bring freedom, healing, and lasting restoration.
ASIN: 1970577800
VSKU: BVV.1970577800.VG
Condition: Very Good
Author/Artist:Kitay, Dr. Carrie
Binding: Paperback
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Condition Notes: Book has little sign of wear or use