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The Loving Parent Guidebook: The Solution is to Become Your Own Loving Parent (Softcover, Spiralbound)

The Loving Parent Guidebook: The Solution is to Become Your Own Loving Parent (Softcover, Spiralbound)

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You learned to survive. This book helps you finally learn to thrive. If you grew up in a home where chaos, criticism, emotional unavailability, or addiction set the tone — you adapted. You learned to be careful, capable, and not need too much. And those adaptations followed you into adulthood, shaping how you love, how you work, how you talk to yourself when no one's watching. This guidebook is about what comes next. The Loving Parent Guidebook is a practical, hands-on workbook for healing childhood trauma and learning to reparent yourself — step by step, with the compassion you deserved growing up but may not have received. It's structured to take you through the process in a meaningful sequence: - Chapters 1–9 build the foundation: you'll identify the inner voices and parts you carry — the inner child, the inner teenager, and the critical parent — and begin developing the skills of a loving internal guide. - Chapters 10–16 deepen your practice: learning to protect, nurture, support, and guide yourself the way a healthy parent would. - Chapters 17–21 bring it all together: building what the book calls a *loving inner home* — a stable, compassionate internal relationship with yourself. - Chapter 22 shows you what reparenting looks like as a way of life, not just a chapter you read once. Throughout, you'll work with: - Exercises and guided practices designed to be used repeatedly over time - Reflection questions for each stage of reparenting - Sample loving parent messages — what it sounds like to speak to yourself with care - Meditations and inner child connection practices - Real stories from people doing this work, showing what progress actually looks like You don't need to be in a recovery program to use this book. Everything here is self-directed and can be done on your own, at your own pace. If you're already in therapy or a recovery program, this book deepens and extends that work. If you're new to inner child work entirely, this is one of the most comprehensive and practical guides available. The skills you build here also change how you show up with other people — as a partner, a parent, a friend. When you learn to be a compassionate witness to yourself, you naturally become one for others. "It's like all the things I needed but didn't get growing up are presented here — with gentleness and respect, not judgment." — Verified Purchaser Developed by the Adult Children of Alcoholics & Dysfunctional Families fellowship, based on decades of collective healing experience.
ASIN: 1944840141
VSKU: BVV.1944840141.A
Condition: Acceptable
Author/Artist:ADULT CHILDREN OF ALCOHOLICS
Binding: Spiral_bound
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Condition Notes: The item is very worn but is perfectly usable. Signs of wear can include aesthetic issues such as scratches, dents, worn and creased covers, folded page corners and minor liquid stains. All pages and the cover are intact, but the dust cover may be missing. Pages may include moderate to heavy amount of notes and highlighting, but the text is not obscured or unreadable. Page edges may have foxing age related spots and browning . May NOT include discs, access code or other supplemental materials.

SKU:BVV.1944840141.A

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