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TORAH TEACHING ON MARRIAGE, DIVORCE AND RE-MARRIAGE: Biblical Misconceptions & Traditions
TORAH TEACHING ON MARRIAGE, DIVORCE AND RE-MARRIAGE: Biblical Misconceptions & Traditions
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“Teaching Our Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage: Misconceptions and Bad Tradition”, with a strong focus on:
Jewish thought
Biblical Hebrew terminology
Ancient cultural and legal context
Jesus' teachings as reformative, not restrictive
A defense for biblically-allowed remarriage
BOOK STRUCTURE PROPOSAL
TITLE: Teaching Our Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage
Subtitle: Misconceptions and Bad Tradition
INTRODUCTION: RECLAIMING A MISUNDERSTOOD DOCTRINE
Purpose of the book
Western vs. Hebraic thought
Overview of Hebrew legal and marital customs
The need to define terms through Hebrew language, not modern assumptions
CHAPTER 1: THE FOUNDATIONS OF MARRIAGE IN TORAH
Hebrew word "Isha" (אִשָּׁה) — "woman, wife"
Implications in Genesis 2:24
Marital unity as a covenant, not a contract
The concept of "Covenant" (בְּרִית / berit) marriage
Patriarchal practices: arranged marriages, ketubah (marriage contract)
CHAPTER 2: DIVORCE IN THE TORAH — A PERMISSION, NOT A COMMAND
Deuteronomy 24:1–4 — the basis of Sefer Keritut (סֵפֶר כְּרִיתוּת) – “bill of divorce”
Sefer = scroll, written document
Keritut = cutting off, legal severance
God’s instruction to Moses was regulatory, not prescriptive
Separation (first stage) → divorce (legal severance) → remarriage
Financial and legal obligations:
Inheritance
Alimony
Protection of the woman
God's hatred of divorce (Malachi 2:16)
Hebrew: “שָׂנֵא שַׁלַּח” (sane shalach) – “He hates sending away”
Not just the act, but the abandonment without provision
CHAPTER 3: HEBREW CONCEPTS OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY AND DIVORCE
Ervah (עֶרְוָה) — “nakedness, indecency, shame”
Used in Deut. 24:1 for “something indecent” — ervat davar (עֶרְוַת דָּבָר)
Rabbis debated the meaning of this phrase:
Shammai school: only sexual immorality
Hillel school: even for burning food or public shame
Biblical allowance for divorce:
Neglect (Ex. 21:10–11)
Abuse
Sexual immorality
Abandonment
Inability to produce children in some cases
CHAPTER 4: DIVORCE IN SECOND TEMPLE JUDAISM & JESUS' CONTEXT
Overview of divorce practices in Jesus’ day
Men abusing liberal divorce laws
Diminished value of women
Matthew 5:31–32 and 19:3–9
Jesus sides with stricter interpretation—not to forbid divorce, but to restore dignity to women
Context: men divorcing without giving Sefer Keritut or financial provision
Jesus wasn’t condemning remarriage universally
His rebuke was for unjust divorce
He acknowledged porneia (πορνεία) — sexual immorality — as valid grounds
CHAPTER 5: WHAT GOD HATES — A THEOLOGICAL CLARIFICATION
Malachi 2:16 revisited
God hates treachery, not legal divorce when necessary
Divorce was allowed to protect the vulnerable
God’s justice includes provision and dignity
CHAPTER 6: WAR, SEPARATION, AND AUTOMATIC DIVORCE LAWS
Jewish legal rulings:, a man went to war over six months, he was to give:
A conditional Get (bill of divorce)
Her financial rights and inheritance
A woman couldn’t be left in limbo (“Agunah” – chained woman)
Marital fidelity includes financial care and legacy
CHAPTER 7: REMARRIAGE IS BIBLICALLY ALLOWABLE
Torah and Jewish law permit remarriage
Example: Deut. 24 permits remarriage after a valid divorce
Woman given her Sefer Keritut was “free to marry another”
Jesus didn’t overturn Torah; He corrected abuses of it
Paul’s teaching in 1 Corinthians 7
“Not under bondage” in cases of abandonment
CHAPTER 8: MISCONCEPTIONS AND BAD TRADITIONS IN THE CHURCH
Western misunderstanding of “covenant”
The false doctrine that “divorced = disqualified”
The danger of legalism over mercy
Real-life application for pastors, leaders, and believers
APPENDICES:
Isha, Ervah, Sefer Keritut, Get, Berit, Porneia, etc.
Sample Marriage Contract (Ketubah) with Commentary
Charts Comparing Rabbinic Schools of Thought (Hillel vs.Shammai
ASIN: B0FLF5MVDH
VSKU: BVV.B0FLF5MVDH.VG
Condition: Very Good
Author/Artist:BEN YAH, Dr. ELIYAHU SHMUEL
Binding: Paperback
Note: Any images shown are stock photographs and product may differ from what is shown.
Condition Notes: Book has little sign of wear or use
ASIN: B0FLF5MVDH
VSKU: BVV.B0FLF5MVDH.VG
Condition: Very Good
Author/Artist:BEN YAH, Dr. ELIYAHU SHMUEL
Binding: Paperback
Note: Any images shown are stock photographs and product may differ from what is shown.
Condition Notes: Book has little sign of wear or use
SKU:BVV.B0FLF5MVDH.VG
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