Good Fences: A Christian's Guide to Boundaries - 4569

You may have heard it said that “good fences make good neighbors.” That’s true! Good fences make good boundaries in many respects and boundaries bring clarity. Healthy boundary lines that differentiate between what belongs to you from what belongs to someone else can make for a less anxious, less chaotic life. That is why the idea of fences is a befitting metaphor for boundaries and the “yard” surrounded by the fence is a befitting metaphor for being able to identify what you are responsible for and what you are not. Where is your fence? What is your yard? This book explains it all. Weak boundaries are ungodly even though they allow, on occasion, people to feel like they are being generous, agreeable, and conflict-avoidant. Just like weak boundaries are unhealthy and unbiblical, so too are rigid boundaries. These extremes are not what God desires for us. When God made Adam, He was clear that humans should not be alone. Rigid boundaries isolate us. Weak boundaries can too. Taught from a Biblical perspective with Jesus as our perfect example, this book speaks to Christians about how to understand themselves and how to manage their relationships with others. While it has some psychological terms woven throughout, it is really about learning how to emulate Jesus. It goes beyond what other books on the subject have revealed; diving deep into the practical with real-life examples and honest discussions of the struggle that comes with following Jesus and building healthy relationships. This book will hold you accountable as it shows you how to “clean up” your “yard” before looking over the fence and judging anyone else. Through candid, honest, and sometimes humorous vulnerability, Dr. Miller walks us through practical steps to become holistically better at managing our mind and behavior to thrive and flourish in the life God calls us to. It will challenge you to grow in your faith, mature in your mindset, heal your emotions, and own your choices. While you will learn things that will bless your relationships, the biggest blessing will be for yourself.
ASIN: B0DTHXVL5F
VSKU: BVV.B0DTHXVL5F.VG
Condition: Very Good
Author/Artist:Miller PhD, Jennifer
Binding: Paperback